How to trust in yourself to make the right choice: This is down the line of building your self confidence so you can learn to trust the choices you make are the right ones.
Do you second guess yourself? I know I have plenty times. However trusting yourself is something we all need to do because it is so important for your self confidence.
So many things are going on around us on a daily basis. You may fall into the trap of following or believing what other people say is the golden rule. But you need to remember that your opinions matter as well. Stay true to yourself and quiet the noise around you.
Treat others like you would like to be treated. Then trust in your choices and accept them however they turn out. Remember it is your choice! Be honest with yourself and to your core values. Hold your head high and keep moving forward.
Last thing you need is limiting beliefs to hold you down.
Stop caring what others think of you. They have their own issues they are working through. Why be someone else when you can be yourself. You are important and your choices matter. When you are authentic you will attract other authentic people.
Do not be hard on yourself, be kind to yourself. Everyone makes choices some good and some bad. Why not learn from the bad choices we make in life and choose to not make those same choices again. Don’t beat yourself up, be kind to yourself.
Have self compassion.
Stop the negative talk conversation you are having with yourself. I call that inner voice “Elaine Moments” a reference from the show Seinfeld. Haha. Do not beat yourself up if something doesn’t work out, or if you make a mistake. Shit happens.
Catch yourself in the middle of that negative self talk and turn it around into a positive. Give yourself a break.
Trust in yourself that you are making the right choice for you. No matter the outcome it was supposed to be the choice you made. We are where we are supposed to be at in life right now. Give yourself some credit where credit is due.
Trusting yourself is the most important thing you can do for yourself. If others trust you then you must be doing something right. Having trust in yourself builds confidence and will attract other confident people. Pay attention to those moments of difficulty and instead of ignoring it think how can I help myself out of this moment of difficulty.
Do not beat yourself up for the choices you make. Instead learn from them. Make a better choice the next time.
When you trust yourself you show up for yourself and others, you lean into fear not walk away, you stand up for your values and you feel empowered by your choices.
Reclaim the power within.
Stop second guessing yourself instead reclaim your power. Stand by what you believe and stick to your decision. If you fall just get up dust yourself off and keep moving forward, it will be okay. It too shall pass.
Take time for self care
Self care is so important. You learn more about yourself when you take time just for you. I love to journal because it helps me process my thoughts. When you write things down you are releasing it on paper and out of your head. Then you can process your thoughts better and ask yourself, how could I have done it differently?
Looking back at my life I made many poor choices but I cannot beat myself up over them because I did that already. Instead I choose to make better choices today and tomorrow. I definitely learned the hard way but bottom line is that I look at those bad choices and learned from them. I can hopefully teach my children not to make the same mistakes as me. It has been a long road to where I am now from where I was and I am grateful that I made it here. I look forward to what’s to come. I changed my life drastically and I know I am still changing each day. I now take time for myself and really process each day. I trust myself enough today to know that the choices I make today are the right ones for this moment in time.
My flaws make me who I am and I am unique.
Remember you are enough! You are in charge of your life, your happiness, and your choices! Time to own it!
Live life with no regrets.
Have a great day.